Finding out you are expecting can fill your heart with joy. You start picturing the nursery, the tiny clothes, and the day you finally meet your baby.
So when a doctor calls with a concerning prenatal medical diagnosis, that joy can turn to fear in an instant. You may even wonder about other options like abortion or adoption.
If you are facing unexpected news about your baby’s health, please know you are not alone, and you do not have to sort through it by yourself.
At Birthright of Memphis, we are here for you. Reach out today to make an appointment.
What Does a Prenatal Diagnosis Mean?
Early in pregnancy, your doctor may order bloodwork or an ultrasound to confirm that your baby is developing within normal ranges.
If something looks unusual, she might recommend further testing, such as amniocentesis, a prenatal test used to detect genetic conditions and other health concerns.
Results are not always clear-cut. A diagnosis often comes as a range of possibilities rather than a single certain outcome.
Your baby may have a strong chance of being born healthy, or may need extra medical care after birth.
Waiting for those answers can be one of the hardest parts, and it is completely natural to feel frightened during that time.
When Difficult Thoughts Take Hold
A concerning diagnosis can stir up emotions you never expected.
You may grieve the pregnancy you had pictured. You may worry about surgeries, ongoing care, or how your family will manage. You might even have thoughts that leave you feeling guilty, then judge yourself for having them at all.
Please hear this: those thoughts are okay. Fear and love can live in the same heart. Naming what you feel, rather than hiding it, is the first step toward carrying it well.
Talk to Someone Who Will Listen
You were never meant to face this alone.
Sharing your fears with a trusted friend, family member, or mentor can ease the weight you are carrying and help you think more clearly about the road ahead and your various options.
We are Here for You
You deserve a safe, confidential place to be honest about how you feel.
Our staff at Birthright of Memphis will walk with you through every stage of pregnancy, offering information on all your options, support, and a listening ear in a compassionate, non-judgmental environment.
Contact us today to learn more about our free services and referral network throughout Memphis, or schedule a confidential appointment.